Insights on habits, behaviour and the psychology of getting unstuck
These articles are for anyone who's ever wondered why the things we know we should change can be so hard to shift.
Simone writes about smoking and vaping, sleep, food and weight, GLP-1 medication, alcohol and midlife change, always from the same starting point: the pattern makes sense once you understand what it's been doing for you. There's no jargon and no judgement, just ideas you can take into your day.
Smoking
Why Willpower Isn't Enough to Quit Smoking
Why willpower wears out, and what the science says helps instead. → [Read]
The Iceberg Beneath the Cigarette
What sits beneath the reasons people give for smoking, and why that gap matters. → [Read]
How Clinical Hypnosis Supports Smoking Cessation
What the research actually shows, minus the swinging pendulums. → [Read]
Vaping
Vaping Isn't Just a Physical Habit
The psychology behind why vaping is so much harder to stop than people expect. → [Read]
From Cue to Craving
How the vaping habit loop works, and the moments where you can interrupt it. → [Read]
The Habit You Didn't Actually Decide to Start
Why vaping's invisibility makes it so hard to cut down, and what to do first.. → [Read]
Sleep
The Science of Sleep: Why Poor Sleep Is Rarely Just a Sleep Problem
For anyone who's tried every sleep tip and is still lying awake. → [Read]
Identity, Arousal and the Late-Night Hours
How the vaping habit loop works, and the moments where you can interrupt it. → [Read]
The Habit You Didn't Actually Decide to Start
When the quiet of the house at night is the only time that feels like yours. → [Read]
Why Sleep Gets So Much Harder in Perimenopause
What's really going on when 3am wake-ups arrive in your forties. → [Read]
Enough Sleep, Not Better Sleep
The short-sleep pattern that most insomnia advice overlooks. → [Read]
Food and Weight
You Already Know What You're "Supposed" to Eat. So Why Doesn't That Help?
The gap between knowing and doing, and why more information rarely closes it. → [Read]
Why Diets Don't Work
What neuroscience tells us about restriction, regain, and a more sustainable way forward. → [Read]
Stress, Cortisol and Comfort Eating
Why the pull toward food at 9pm usually has nothing to do with hunger. → [Read]
It's Not You. It's Perimenopause
The science behind midlife weight changes, and why you're not failing. → [Read]
GLP-1 Medication
What the Medication Can't Do for You
What's still waiting underneath once the food noise quietens. → [Read]
GLP-1 Medications in Perimenopause
What the research shows, and why behaviour change still matters. → [Read]
Alcohol
What Alcohol Does to the Brain
How alcohol works on the brain, and why understanding it changes the conversation. → [Read]
Changing Your Relationship With Alcohol Doesn't Require a Label
Why you don't need to call yourself anything to start doing things differently. → [Read]
Understanding Yourself
The Brain Behind the Pattern
What a late ADHD diagnosis taught one client about freedom. → [Read]
When Understanding Yourself Becomes Another Way of Waiting
For the deep thinkers who understand their pattern perfectly and still feel stuck. → [Read]